Cupids Road Kill

The other day... saw the Last Roommate (aka ex-husband). Had to meet him at the bank to cash a check in both our names. IT SUCKED!!! I didn't want to see him, I didn't want to interact with him, I didn't want to talk to him... infact, just doing those things frustrates me. THAT is the term by the way frustrates me. It is in fact true that seeing him is painful - I admit that - we spent 15 years together, but at this point... what is the point of putting myself through that. We are not married, we are not involved and frankly... after our interactions of the the past year, I don't like him right now. Most divorced people say that this part heals, you get over it and are able to communicate down the road... As they say time heals everything. Well, I am pissed off right now. I had to go to court and WASTE thousands of dollars for NOTHING... anyone out there that thinks that divorce lawyers/attorneys or whatever are there to protect you, THEY AREN'T! I will have to blog about that another day! Until then... my advice... when you are done... YOU'RE DONE! There is no reason to create interaction with your "last roommate" - it's painful and it doesn't do any good for your growth.